How does it feels like when your friend thinks that you ask them to do thing that you doesn't like?

To be honest, I could have ask y'all to help me do many things that I doesn't like but I didn't. Maybe I'm over reacting or maybe I treated this friendship to seriously but it feels terrible when one thinks you used them.

Maybe I'm being to childish to ignore everyone and maybe I'm just too tied up to myself. So many doubts.
Am I too concern on myself?
Am I too selfish?
Am I too inconsiderate?

2 years, we known each other for 2 years but no one ever gives a damn about.